being nervous

a nuclear scientist's wife said,before she passed awaya decade ago, re being nervousand what have you;
excluding distruping other people,when others feel odd and commentabout your actions, ignore them.YOU live your life, let themlive theirs.
WE too often wonder, "will someonelaugh at me, or say mean things?"
do not waste time asking thequestion.
HOW others respond, unless you are a paid actor, is not relevant to what you should do.
IF others get concerned by meor bothered by me, I let themget bothered or annoyed as long asI do not break the law.
IN hours or days, theirbeing annoyed or my being nervoushas long disappeared.
Too many females, especially in our culture, are concernedwith other's reactions and then,they forget to be themselves.
what a waste!
be you.
harm no others